Comments on: Chubby.

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By: John

John — Tue, 20 May 2008 17:08:33 +0000

Here’s the correct answer to, “Does this make me look fat?”
“Honey, that outfit just doesn’t flatter your figure the way it should.”
This way, you are making an intelligent response. Blame the clothes, not her figure. Then, the next time your in the hardware store with her, pick up a hammer, hold it close to your waist and ask her, “Honey, does this hammer make me look fat?” Assuming, she has a sense of humor. Good Luck!

By: Dee

Dee — Wed, 14 May 2008 14:26:23 +0000

I think the proper thing to say should have been something constructive rather than critical, and “chubby” is critical in any woman’s eyes.

“You aren’t fat and you look good in the dress” should have been replaced by something slightly more truthful, but gentle, and hinting at the possibility of improving oneself. “It looks great, but it would look even better if we worked off a little of this (touches hips) at the gym.” An alternative would be (and this is if the dress truly makes the girlfriend look fat) “I don’t think this style suits you” (bonus points for the fashion advice!)

By: amy

amy — Tue, 13 May 2008 13:13:05 +0000

okay i am a woman and this story pissed me off and not because i think the girl was right.

he said she was chubby he did not call her a sea cow. no women are just dumb. and i am a woman saying this . we trick guys into these situations by putting them in akward spots. he tries to lie to us to boost our ego but do we let him no we keep on fighting him. soon enough he gives up the fight and does not complient us. it does not give us the right to kick him out of bed. and then we have the nerve to stay mad for days !

my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years and yes we fight but at the end of the day no matter what is said he is still in the bed .we have a theroy of not going to bed mad . women need to let go of their bags of tricks looking for any reason to fight its just dumb.

grrrr i think a man has the right to say what he thinks with out the consequences. lord know i do.

By: rachel

rachel — Sat, 03 May 2008 14:14:51 +0000

all of those gilrs that say they wouldn’t be mad-lied.
that’s just how we are-i can’t even explain it but it’s true

By: Kimberly

Kimberly — Wed, 30 Apr 2008 22:34:57 +0000

You know this make’s me laugh. I do feel for you guys .. myself being large fat, chubby, what ever you want to call it .. It is what it is ..
If you don’t want to know the truth then don’t ask.. I LEARNED THAT ALONG TIME AGO..
And as for you silly ole boy’s men , glentlemen be alittle easy on the ladies we tend to cry easy I sometimes thing our bladder our near our eyeballs (wink) .,,,

By: HotrodMamma

HotrodMamma — Wed, 30 Apr 2008 21:01:41 +0000

It’s the oldest female trick in the book. You either tell her the truth and say what you did…with dire consequences, or lie your butt off for brownie points. I personally don’t have such a HUGE problem with my self esteem that I would have to do that to a guy. I take my fella shopping with me a lot. He has great taste in what works for me, sometimes better than I do. All women are not created equal, but blessed are the ones who don’t need their ego stroked all of the time either.

By: Jason Marcel

Jason Marcel — Wed, 30 Apr 2008 03:14:25 +0000

I used to be the kind of guy who would play along with the whole stupid game in relationships, the one’s that require that we str8 men dumb ourselves down and walk on eggshells in situations like these.

If it were her best friend, a girlfriend, or one of her gay-boi friends, she’d want to know the truth and expect the truth, but from the boyfriends they all want fairytale crap and dishonesty. If you’re an insecure woman, than do things that make you less insecure, like working out and keeping fit. If you honestly have no idea if you’re fat, then you’re a child.

I’m just really tired of nice str8 men being emasculated these days. Gay guys and chicks can still be involved in sugar relationships, happily demanding to leach off of their partners, but a man is not a man if he can’t support himself. The double standard is there, but str8 guys are asked to behave like Everybody Loves Raymond, kinda dumb, kinda clueless, forgetting stuff, saying things just to say things rather than being honest, but being the provider nonetheless.

No more.

You have nothing to apologize for. This is 2008, not the 1950’s ladies. If you’re self-esteem needs a boost, do something about it on your own, because you secretly know what you like and don’t like about yourself and what you should do to change things.

By: Hugh Janus

Hugh Janus — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 19:00:11 +0000

Have you tried spanking her when she behaves like this? I’m serious. One person in a relationship has to be the adult, and it doesn’t seem like she is volunteering. [ *** Edited For Explicit Content *** ] She’ll never admit it, but she’s going to be grateful that you stepped up to your duties as a man and set clear boundaries with her.

Editor’s Note: This website does not support domestic abuse of any kind but does value everyone’s opinion.

By: Carol

Carol — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 05:06:46 +0000

I’m a pretty insecure woman. I myself am not fat, but I know I’m chubby. I’m certainly not retarded or ridiculous enough to ask a question knowing that the true answer is something I don’t want to hear. As a woman I have a tendency to give my man enough shit for lying that I’m pretty f-ing certain that if I asked him if I look chubby in something he’d say yes becaues he doesn’t want to get busted for lying. If you can’t be secure enough with the fact that a man actually loves you enough to go shopping with you (because we all know that no man wants to wait outside a dressing room) that he doesn’t give a damn if you’re a little heavy. Don’t be stupid. You know you’re heavy. If you don’t like it eat less and go to the gym. If you’re like me (lazy) then just find a man that like a larger than average woman and be happy with him. Don’t ask him a question and freak out like he just took a shit on your new carpet or something because he gives you an honest answer. That’s dumb. It’s also shallow. You can’t have it both ways. He’s either going to be honest or he’s not.